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A naked embrace is a poignant intimacy between doubly incarnate beings, and is especially, therefore, the home of shared tenderness, care and loving affection: it is touching in the other sense.
From this central ground of shared affection, touching, too, can move in one of two directions. It can mediate transcendence, affiliation with inner space, an attunement to subtle dimensions of being: two persons are in physical and subtle contact and their shared awareness goes a long way back into the other world.
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At other times sexual experience may lead over into transcendence: then the post-orgasmic state is one of great openness to the other world. I develop these themes in the next two sections.
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These effects are important, Mutual erotic touching, valuable - and illuminating. They inaugurate the yoga of intimacy, sexuality and togetherness.
And they undermine once and for all the conspiracy theory of the skin and its flesh: the theory that the skin conspires to seduce you away from the light. On the contrary, the skin is, to inner vision, a luminous membrane between the worlds. Live in the tangential reality that shapes it - and at the immediate limit of your physicality Sexy pussy in Swindon have instant access to the other universe.
The yoga of intimacy also affirms the spatial value of pleasure: sensory pleasure, sensual pleasure and sexual pleasure.
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The post-orgasmic person may be suffused with symbolic images, clairvoyance of other worlds, of presences and powers. I remember such a vision in which I had a vivid picture of being one of a large party of persons being conducted by a civic dignitary among the collapsed walls of Jericho, a city famous for its palms and gardens of balsam. Sexual activity is the celebration of this prior intimacy.
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Actually, the Tantrikas made a virtue of it. Such alienation occurs when the purpose of sexual union is not to celebrate person-to-person intimacy - attunement of soul and nurturant affection - but simply to participate in the bliss of cosmic creativity. Hence the Tantrikas were not concerned with any kind of personal relationship with their partners, but deliberately chose a succession of relative strangers, who however were equally proficient in the sexual disciplines and meditative rituals of the cult.
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For the charm of human life is that it can properly affirm its autonomy, its relative independence of the subtle worlds: sexual union can be a celebration of human passion and affection, of delight in personhood, of the elegance and ease of the human animal, of physical beauty, of dance and movement, of sheer desire, of the comic and the absurd - and this without any conscious reference to a transcendental context.
Living awarely in two worlds means sometimes living in one, sometimes in the other, and sometimes in. The energy orgasm For a woman, orgasm is independent of the working of the gon, the ovaries. Her sexual climax is, as such, nothing to do with reproduction. Mutual erotic touching of sexual arousal may vary with the monthly rhythm, but the climax of arousal does not involve the gon. Orgasms can be multiple without the need for a refractory period.
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Women can ejaculate fluids copiously, have great sexual potency for orgasm, and have procreative power in their wombs. Men cannot ejaculate semen as copiously, have less sexual potency for orgasm, have no procreative power in their bodies to make babies, although of course great power to make semen.
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One way, among many, for men to relate to the greater orgasmic abundance of women is to cultivate the energy orgasm. As the tide of his excitement rises toward ejaculation, the man transfers the energy of that excitement into sound.
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In some jurisdictions, an erotic massage may be legal, while prostitution is not. Sex therapy[ edit ] Mutual erotic touching massage may be used in sex therapy as a means of stimulating the libido or increasing the ability of a person to respond positively to sensual stimulus. In some cases, erotic Women wanting cum inside their pussy Streetsboro can be a form of foreplay without sexual gratificationintended to heighten the sensitivity of an individual prior to another engagement where sexual arousal and fulfillment is intended.
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Such cases were quite profitable for physicians, since the patients were at no risk of death but needed constant treatment. However, the vaginal massage procedure generally referred to as " pelvic massage " was tedious and time-consuming for physicians.